Why Do You Want to Retire?
Friday, November 21st, 2008I can’t believe all the people I meet who are looking forward to retirement. And then there are all the people who are dreading it because they believe they’ll be destitute. You’re going to stop doing purposeful work, stop being with your friends, stop earning because… why?
I’ve always believed retirement is a really, really bad idea. I have no intention of ever retiring. There are times I work more than other times (during which I save up money so when I’m not as gainfully employed I have a stash of cash.) But I’m going to die in my boots. The idea of waiting for my Friday Hair Appointment while Waiting For The Kids To Call is anathema to me.
Statistics show that when people retire, they lose their social skills, they get poor and they die. Sometimes they die within weeks of their retirement. No, they weren’t sick. They just up and kick the bucket because, well, as Albert Einstein says, “Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving.”
As for early retirement… Freedom Fifty-odd… bah! In one study, researchers found that settling into your Golden Years at age 55 doubled the risk for death before reaching age 65, compared with those who worked past age 60.
I’ve been a proponent of Restyling, as opposed to Retiring. While you may not want to do the job you’re doing right now, you can restyle to do another job, have another career, find another way to make a meaningful contribution while you make some money. Maybe not as much as before. Maybe more.
Perhaps the reason people are so hell-fired about retirement is The Grass is Greener Syndrome. Kind of like, “my life sucks and what you do looks better.” But you know what? The grass isn’t greener, and if your life sucks, why in heaven’s name would you wait until you were 55, 60 or 65 to fix it?
For many people work isn’t separate from life — it’s a part of it. While it may not be fun for some, for others it’s a passion. Either way, it’s a part of our lives, good or bad. The trick is if you’re in the ‘bad’ category, you need to start looking now at what you can do differently, as opposed to just sucking it up until you can retire.
People are always talking about striving for work-life balance. When you’re doing something you really love, you don’t need to cut back so you can up your Couch-Potatoing. Instead of tossing work out the window completely, maybe the trick is to find something you love, get really good at it, and then restyle your life so that you can do more of it, and make some money too. People who are passionate about personal fitness become fitness instructors or personal trainers. What, you don’t think you need to stay flexile when you’re old? People who are passionate about gardeners learn to landscape. All that life experience comes handy, doesn’t it? People who are passionate about design, cooking, photography, mechanics, animals… well, you get my drift.
Maybe it’s time to take a Big Picture look at your life — how are you spending your time right now? This is one of the exercises I used in my Retirement Answer Book (no longer in publication). I asked people to create 24 blocks for a day, over 7 days (so you’ll end up with 168 blocks), and colour in the squares with different colours that represented how many hours they worked, played, did personal hygiene stuff, took care of their families, and whatever else they did in their lives.
Of those things, what do you enjoy doing? What do you want to carry with you through the rest of your Whole Life? What do you want to eliminate? How are you going to do that?
Having the life you want should not be a case of holding your breath until you can retire. You should be working hard right now to create the life you want, while you’re aware of the restyling you may have to do as you slow down.
The home inspector I just worked with is in his 70’s. He loves his job. He’s the best at in. AND he works with his wife, who is also a home inspector. They tool around together, having fun, helping people like me, and earning $400 a pop to boot. Why would he ever retire?